Tuesday, January 6, 2009

New Year

The most profound moment so far of 2009 came on Sunday in my Primary class (I now team-teach the CTR 7s); we were talking about names - why we need them, what we want other people to feel when they hear ours, etc. I had gone to church hoping for some direction in setting my goals for the year, and as I listened to the other teacher direct the discussion I had this moment: when other people hear my name, I don't give a hoot if they think "She was such a good cook" or "She had a beautiful voice." I'd rather they say "She never said an unkind word about anyone" or "Her service came at a time when I really needed it." I'm so glad I get to spend time in the Primary as an adult, because there are some lessons I didn't learn the first time around.

This time of year has also brought to mind a quote from former Relief Society General President Barbara B. Smith: "Goals are stars to steer by, not sticks to beat yourself with." I hope to set my own course this year by that Eternal Star, our Savior Jesus Christ, and work toward becoming even as He is.

12 comments:

talitha said...

Sigh.

I love you, sweet Brittany.

Jill said...

Some people feel that Primary is banishment. I feel that you can learn some profound things there if you're looking, and sometimes even if you're not.

Jon Paul said...

I like being in primary, too. I think sometimes people don't dare state the (supposedly) obvious truths in other classes because they're afraid they'll look bad.

Kari said...

Thanks, Brittany. I needed to hear that. For the record, you are really good at all those things you mentioned...

pictureeachday said...

Some beautiful thoughts to start the year! I have been wanting and meaning to email you, but can never seem to "find the time." So I suppose I'll have to make it. ;)

Whenever I've heard your name in the past few years, I HAVE thought, "She had such a beautiful voice." But!--I've also thought, "She was such a positive influence on me." :)

Sharon

Christian said...

I like that quote, Brit. I definitely sway more towards the "beating" side than the "guiding" side with goals. That'll be one to keep in mind...Oh, by the way: When I think about you I just think "smart." Sometimes it's "smart alec" though. :)

Steven said...

CTR 7 rocks!

Amanda said...

That is a really good thought. Thanks for sharing it. I love the quote too.

[Morgan] said...

i love primary. i learn so much and the spirit can be so strong.
and if it means anything, i've never heard you say an unkind word ever.

Vern said...

Wait, I don't know what to do if I'm not beating myself with sticks. Give me some time to sort this out.

Theresa said...

sounds like a good resolution. :)

Vern said...

but I'm so partial to sticks!